Adopting: Choosing the Dog for You
Adopting a pet is one of the most rewarding choices you can make. It means joy, companionship and a second chance for an animal who needs you. But with so many wonderful pets looking for homes, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start.
There’s no such thing as a “perfect” pet — but there is a pet who’s the right match for you. This guide will help you think through what matters most, so you can start your adoption journey with confidence and excitement.
Personality & Energy Level
Every pet has their own personality. The key is finding one whose energy matches your lifestyle.
Love long hikes or runs? A high-energy dog could be your best buddy. Prefer quiet evenings on the couch? A mellow companion might be a better fit. Hoping for a social companion on outings? Seek out a confident, outgoing personality. Some breeds, like Australian cattle dogs or corgis, were originally bred to work and need outlets for their smarts and energy. Without them, they may turn to undesirable behaviors like digging, barking or chewing.
The majority of shelter pets are mixed breeds, so looks alone don’t tell their full story. That’s why we recommend searching for the right fit, rather than a specific appearance or breed. Ask about each animal’s likes, dislikes and habits. Our adoption counselors — and your own time spent in a meet-and-greet — will give you a true sense of who they are.
Our staff, volunteers and fosters collect lots of insights to help you get to know each pet. Keep in mind that a pet’s behavior can look different in the shelter environment than it would once they feel comfortable and safe in their new home. Every adoption also comes with a free 1-hour behavior consultation — and we offer plenty of free training resources, including classes, videos and articles.
Time Commitment
Pets thrive on time and attention. Before adopting, ask yourself how much time you realistically have.
- Puppies and kittens need frequent meals, potty breaks and lots of supervision.
- Seniors may need medication administered daily.
- All pets need daily interaction and companionship.
If you’re away often, consider older pets who enjoy lounging, or line up help from dog walkers, sitters or daycare.
The Financial Side
Caring for a pet comes with ongoing costs: food, treats, veterinary care, flea meds, supplies and sometimes daycare or boarding.
The good news? Adopting from San Diego Humane Society saves a lot! Every adoption includes a spay/neuter, microchip, vaccines, a one-hour behavior consult and a certificate for a free vet exam. We also offer lost-cost vet care, free pet food and supplies, and other support services to help families keep their pets during challenging times.
Housing Considerations
If you’re a renter, check your lease for weight or breed restrictions. Sometimes landlords will make exceptions if you show you’re a responsible owner. It doesn’t hurt to ask, and you can see if something like a Canine Good Citizen test or establishing the pet as an Emotional Support Animal would help show that your pet is not a liability.
Even if you own, your city may have specific limits on the number of pets you can legally own — for example, Carlsbad allows only three cats or dogs per household.
Expect the Unexpected
Bringing home a new pet is joyful, but it can also be an adjustment. Puppies teethe. Kittens scratch. Both require patience and guidance as they learn. With time, love and consistency, they’ll settle in and become wonderful companions.
Final Thoughts
Adoption is a big step — and we’re thrilled you’re considering it! By thinking through your lifestyle and planning ahead, you’ll set yourself and your new pet up for success.
Not quite sure what type of pet is right for you? Consider fostering first! It’s a great way to discover which personalities and energy levels you connect with most.
No matter how you begin, one thing is certain: opening your heart and home to an animal in need is an experience like no other.