Introducing Cats
Welcoming a new cat into your family home? Here’s how to make the introduction to your resident cat as smooth as possible! For more advice, check out: Behavior & Training Lecture: Introducing New Pets.
If you’re not sure whether your current pet would be able to live comfortably with a new cat, take a look at our article, Tips for Picking a New Pet.
When You’re Preparing to Introduce Your Cats…
Set up a safe space for the new cat:
Before bringing home a new cat, set up their safe space — a separate area with a door that your resident cat cannot access. It’s important to keep the cats completely separate for the first week or so.
The safe space will be important during the introduction process and should have everything your cat needs: food, water, their own litter box separate from the resident cat's, places to hide, multiple scratchers (offer a variety), places to rest and sleep, and toys and enrichment.
Double the cats, double the resources
While most cats can share toys, beds, scratchers and cat trees, cats are sensitive to smells and can be territorial. To reduce the risk of fights, litter box challenges and issues with eating, get your new cat their own bed, food bowl, water bowl and litter box. This is necessary while the new cat is living in their safe space, but will also be helpful when the cats begin to share space — especially the separate litter boxes!
The Litter Box Golden Rule: one for each cat, plus an extra!
Escape Options:
Make sure there are lots of hiding places and high spaces (cat shelves, cat trees, cubbies, etc.) for both cats to enjoy and escape to so they don't feel the need to fight over them. If your cats can't get away from each other, they may feel threatened and resort to swatting, scratching, fighting or biting.
When your new cat arrives…
- Put your current cat in a closed room or another area of the home before bringing the new cat inside. Offer the resident cat a puzzle toy, licky mat or other form of enrichment to help them relax and stay busy.
- Then, bring the new cat inside straight to their safe space. Place the cat carrier on the ground and open the door. Let your new cat come out on their own time. Make sure your resident cat can’t explore the area near the safe space.
Body Language: What to Look For
Because learning our pets’ body language is crucial to successful introductions, we recommend you start by watching our Behavior & Training Lecture: Can You Speak Dog or Cat? and referring to our body language resources.
Cats will communicate if they can comfortably and safely share space with another cat. Signs that your cat is experiencing stress, overstimulation, fear or other negative emotions include:
- A stiff and alert body
- Tense facial muscles or showing teeth
- Wide eyes with large pupils
- Puffed up tail and fur (piloerection)
- Stiff tail vibrating up high or large swishing tail
- Ears back
- Being unable to break focus from the other pet (fixation)
- Swatting and clawing, hissing, yowling, spitting, biting, fleeing and hard stare
More serious signs that indicate your cat is experiencing high levels of stress and may not be comfortable sharing space with another cat include:
- Consistent hiding
- Changes to or loss of appetite
- Litter box issues
- Changes in elimination habits
- Medical issues like upper respiratory infection (URI) or urinary tract infection (UTI)
- Sudden disinterest in playing or other changes in your cat’s behavior
The goal is calm, relaxed body language and signs of positive emotions for both pets. If either pet isn’t calm, move back a step and slow down.
Tips for Success
In the first few weeks, patience is key. The introduction process can take time, and you may need to go back a step if your pets aren’t comfortable. By moving slowly and following the tips below, most cats will adjust to their new kitty companion.
- Let the new pet decompress before starting the introduction process and remember the 3-3-3 Rule.
- Spend equal time with both pets separately.
- Whenever you enter your cat's safe room, scatter treats and toss a few to the cat. This helps them associate good things with you!
- Give both cats plenty of playtime and mental enrichment to help them de-stress and avoid overstimulation. Bonus: Interactive play is a great way to engage and bond with your new cat!
- Use the “cat activity cycle” — play, catch, eat, groom, sleep, repeat — to your advantage. Play with and feed both cats before starting an introductory session so that they are calmer and ready to groom and sleep.
- Go at your cats' pace so they don’t feel pressured to move to the next step before they are ready. Let the animals choose to interact with you and each other on their own terms.
- Use toys, treats and your voice to redirect either pet if they become frustrated, over-excited, frightened or fixated on the other pet.
- If your pets aren’t taking breaks from play or are playing too roughly, redirect them to create breaks. Here’s an example of attempts at play between cats: Ginny & Poe early play attempts.
- Don’t force the cats into each other’s space by holding them, caging them or restricting their ability to escape. The pets need to be able to flee at any time.
- Create a shared scent through “social grooming” to help build a bond between the cats. Before the cats meet, brush both cats with the same brush. Brush one cat and then the other, repeating the process and switching up the order of brushing so that both cats receive each other’s scent.
- If the cats get into a scuffle, check for injuries and separate them so they are unable to see each other. Wait three to six days and then begin the introduction process again, but this time, go much slower. If there are clumps of fur left behind after the scuffle, consider reaching out to a trainer for support.
- Use pheromone sprays and diffusers, such as Feliway, to help cats feel calmer and more comfortable during interactions.
Let’s Begin the Slow Introduction Process!
Step 1: Complete Separation
- Keep the cats completely separated without access to each other for at least a week.
- Be sure that the resident cat does not have access to the area right outside the new cat’s safe space. You can set up ex-pens or baby gates or keep the resident cat in a separate part of the home to ensure they aren’t going near the safe space door.
Step 2: Scent Swapping
While they are still separated, start building enthusiasm through scent swapping.
- Present a blanket or toy with the other pet's scent and reward calm behavior with treats when the other pet’s smell is present.
- Immediately start rewarding any interaction your pet has with the scented object (looking at, smelling it, touching it, laying on it) and then remove the object after a few minutes or before your pet can react negatively towards it.
- In the beginning stages, the scented object should only be present if someone is there to give treats for calm behavior.
- Over time, extend the length of time the scented object is present. Eventually, you can leave the scented object alone with your pet, but only if they have shown calm behavior with it.
- Once you observe consistent calm, relaxed behavior from both pets while scent swapping, you can move on to Step 3.
Step 3: Through a Door
- Have one person in the safe room with the new cat and the other outside the room with the resident cat.
- With the door closed, give treats to both pets. Keep these sessions short and always end on a good note before either pet becomes stressed, frustrated or overstimulated.
- If either pet starts showing signs they are uncomfortable or fixated, stop and call them both away from the door using treats or a toy.
- End the session before it can escalate. Once both pets are comfortable with this step (no hissing, growling, puffed fur, etc.), move to the next step.
Step 4: Through a See-Through Barrier
- You can use a baby gate, ex-pen or glass door, or crack open the door to the safe space just enough for them to see each other.
- Have someone on one side of the barrier with the new cat and someone on the other side with the resident cat.
- Repeat Step 3, allowing the pets to see each other while being given treats. The pets should be able to see each other but not touch.
- Allow the pets to approach the barrier on their own — do not force them.
- If both pets seem relaxed or cautious, don’t intervene in their interactions except to praise and reward them for appropriate behavior. If either of them is not calm, redirect them and interrupt any negative interactions that may be happening (staring, growling, swatting, lunging, etc.).
- Keep this session very short and end before it can escalate. Once both pets are comfortable with this step, move to the next step.
Step 5: Open the Safe Space Door
- Put the resident cat in another area of the home and keep them away from the new cat’s safe space.
- Open the door to the safe space and allow the new cat to venture out on their own time. Treat and praise both pets to continue building positive associations with one another.
Step 6: In-Person Meeting
- Be prepared with treats and do this in an open area of the home with space for the cats to run and hide if need be.
- As soon as the new cat begins to enter an area where the resident cat is present, start rewarding both cats with praise, treats, toys, etc.
- Try to keep a little bit of space between the cats. Only allow them to approach each other if both pets are calm.
- Reward both pets for looking at each other AND for looking away from each other (see infographic: The Engage-Disengage Game).
- If either of them is not calm, redirect them and interrupt any negative interactions that may be happening (staring, growling, swatting, lunging, etc.).
- Keep this session very short and end before it can escalate.
- Repeat this step many times, gradually extending the length of the sessions, before letting them interact unsupervised or for long periods of time.
Need help?
If things are not working out, here are your options:
- Completely separate the cats. Restart the slow introduction process from the very beginning.
- If you adopted one or both of your pets from San Diego Humane Society, book your free Post Adoption Consultation online over Zoom with a member of our Behavior & Training team.
- Book an online Private Lesson (one hour, online over Zoom). Open to all community members, these sessions focus on environmental management, troubleshooting and training exercises.
- Find a positive reinforcement trainer who can come to your home to assess the situation.
- Consider the well-being and quality of life for everyone involved. If you decide you need to rehome a pet, we offer rehoming resources here.
More Behavior & Training Resources
San Diego Humane Society offers training classes and resources to address a variety of needs for companion animals.
Our training philosophy is based on the behavioral science concepts of positive reinforcement. Training your pet using these concepts will not only help them learn new behaviors more quickly, but it will also strengthen the bond you share.
Please visit our website for a current schedule of training classes or call 619-279-5961.